by Janis Patterson
What makes a writer? Is it genetic? Or the way we are
raised? Or something we choose that we feel we must follow? Or all of the
above?
To begin with let me say I am the third generation of a
wordsmith family. One grandfather was a small-town newspaper publisher in a
time and place where that was a position of power. Both grandmothers were at
one time teachers. My father was editor and/or publisher of several Texas newspapers, taught journalism at Texas A&M (he also separated the journalism department
from the English department and made it a separate discipline) and, with my
mother started and owned one of the top 300 advertising agencies in the US . My
mother was an English teacher, a play producer and a magazine columnist. I
started working in the family agency when I was nine – as a stripper, no less. (And no, it’s not what you’re thinking, but
it is a great line to use at a cocktail party!) I graduated to writing copy
when I was twelve.
Obviously I didn’t have a snowball’s chance of becoming
anything else but some variety of wordsmith!
But was it nature or nurture? Yes, our house was full of
books. It still is. The Husband and I live in a house with two dedicated
libraries and a hobby room with five enormous bookshelves. For that matter,
little drifts of books stacked on the floor and almost every flat surface seem
to breed in our house. But not all readers become writers, so I ask again, is
it nature or nurture?
I don’t know, but the question did strike me a couple of
days ago. I was going through some papers of my late father’s and there,
between two of the radio scripts he had written long ago, was a copy of my
birth announcement.
It’s a simple thing, a plain white piece of paper with black
print with a left-hand fold so it opens like a book. On the cover is the image
of a book with the title “Janis Susan – Announcing a New Edition – Best Book of
the Year.” There is also a picture of a rather startlingly disgruntled looking
stork in a top hat and glasses. I always wondered why he had such a peculiar
look on his face.
Open the ‘book’ and it says “The Author and Publisher
proudly announce the issuance of their 19XX (no,
I’m not going to tell you the year!) edition entitled Janis Susan May.”
Below that, it says “Author – Donald W. May – Publisher –
Aletha B. May.”
Below that it says “Publication Date – (the date of my birth) – DeLuxe Edition, with pink and white
binding weighs X pounds X ounces (I’m not
going to tell you that either, then or
now!). Cover jacket – white, removable. Reprints and Second Editions not
available this year.”
See? I was doomed from the beginning. Nature or nurture
makes no difference, for when one’s beginning of life is announced as a book,
one really has no choice but to become a writer.
In the for what it’s worth department, my father did the
announcement himself. He had a telling wit and I personally think the concept
hilarious. My sentimentalist mother loathed it and, once recovered from her
ordeal, sent out very proper handwritten announcements herself, probably
confusing a lot of people as to whether the Mays had had one child or two.
Sometimes, knowing the many dichotomies of my nature, I
wonder that myself. But then, I am a writer.
19 comments:
I enjoyed your post, Susan. It must be in the blood. Best luck in the new year.
How wonderful to grow up in such an environment! Though I don't remember my parents reading very often, growing up my brothers and I made many trips to the library. My brothers still do. I use my Kindle instead now.
Morgan Mandel
Janis, love your post. How wonderful that you had such a background. I grew in an opposite environment. I did manage to go to college and "find" myself through the help of a professor. I have no idea where my love of writing came from!
What a wonderful way to grow up!
My mother encourage (aided and abetted) my love of reading. No clue where the drive to write came from.
It's wonderful that you had the amazing upbringing with books and experience.
I didn't read until my twenties because the books I craved (magic, fantasy, etc.) where not allowed in my parent's house.
I've heard of parents refusing to allow their kids to read comic books. I say if they won't read anything else, let them read comic books - eventually it will lead to a love of reading and they'll get into other forms of literature.
Love that literary birth announcement, so clever!
I don't think nurture alone is enough to make someone a writer, but I hesitate to say it's genetic. Maybe some day we'll know for sure.
Enjoyed the post.
Oh, I love that birth announcement! How precious, especially that your father would take the time to make it.
Nature v. Nurture? Probably a combination. I think some people are natural-born storytellers. (I don't think I am. I had to work at the craft to learn it, though I did absorb a lot of it through movies, TV, and lots and lots of reading). :)
Susan, if you can figure out what made you the talented and entertaining writer you are, call me. We'll bottle it, sell it, and make a fortune.
What a hoot! Of course your mom was annoyed--she was listed as the publisher & not the author? What's up with that?! :)
How wonderful.
As a child my story telling and writing was discouraged by all the adults in my life. Six years ago I decided to put my big girl panties on and write. I think we are born story tellers. We become writers because we are encourages and in spite of circumstances.
Love the birth announcement! No writers in my family but we are all readers, and I grew up surrounded by books.
not nurtured in my family. not another writer in sight. lol. maybe your dad was a prophet.
Loved your birth announcement. Your parents sound delightful. Everyone in my family read, read, read--don't know of anyone who wrote until I came into the picture.
Love your dad's baby announcement, he had a great wit.
Janice!
Love the birth announcement. Agree your Mom should have been listed as author.
I come from a family that read. Mom read everything, Dad only read newspaper. He was dyslexic as am I. I always read fiction. It was non-fiction and directions that threw me for a loop. Still have trouble with them.
A write. I was tell my twin sister stories before we even spoke English according to my Mom. I started writing fiction after I finally passed my special reading class. I volunteered in the library at age 9. My parents although they encouraged reading, discouraged writing. Told me I needed to grow up. I burned my notebook full of stories when I left home at age 23. I regret that. I didn't write again until my kids were grown.
Grandmother was a teacher, Mom worked for a newspaper as a photojournalist. Being I started so young and twin doesn't write, I'd say I was born to writing.
Writing is definitely in your family! We always had lots of books around the place while growing up, but I'm the first writer in our family.
I enjoyed your post. I love your Dad's sense of humor.
Debra Andrews
How wonderful, to be welcomed into the world as a Special Edition! And how apt! Love it!
What a great story, Janis. I discovered our library when I was four and it was my favorite place to visit growing up. By the time I was eight I knew I wanted to be a mystery author. I just didn't realize it would take another 5 decades before it became reality. But it's never too late! Thanks for sharing.
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