One sure way to get my creative juices flowing is a visit to an old graveyard. From Wolfe's Look Homeward, Angel to Gray's Elegy Written in a Country Churchyard, writers have sought inspiration in these cities of the dead. Join me for a little tour of some of my favorite spots.
|Is she looking homeward?|
The Angel of Peace
Forest Hills Cemetery, Boston
You can't go back home to your family, back home to your childhood, back home to romantic love, back home to a young man's dreams of glory and of fame, back home to exile....back home to the old forms and systems of things which once seemed everlasting but which are changing all the time--back home to the escapes of Time and Memory--Thomas Wolfe
|A penny for your thoughts?|
Antietam Cemetery, Maryland
Previous visitors had left coins on many of the soldiers's headstone. Most were pennies, though I spotted a few nickles. Was this a fee for the ferryman or was there some other meaning?
Later I read that coins left at grave sites held a special meaning for the military dead, with each denomination meaning something different. But it all comes down to remembrance, which is the last gift the living give the dead.
|City of the Dead, with luxurious above-ground accommodations, |
courtesy of Marie Laveau
Lafayette Cemetery, New Orleans
Many of the cemeteries are beautiful, and are kept in perfect order. When one goes from the levee or the business streets to a cemetery, he observes... that if those people down there would live as neatly while they are alive as they do after they are dead, they would find many advantages in it; and besides, their quarter would be the wonder and admiration of the business world.
|Copp's Hill Burying Ground|
No sooner came, but gone, and fall’n asleep,Memorials aren't limited to angels and headstones. When Grace died at five years old from whooping cough, her lifelike statue was encased in glass, where it remains as pure and unblemished as the day it was created. From her expression, she must have been a serious little soul.
Acquaintance short, yet parting caused us weep;
Three flowers, two scarcely blown, the last I’ th’ bud,
Cropt by th’ Almighty’s hand; yet is He good.
With dreadful awe before Him let’s be mute,
Such was His will, but why, let’s not dispute,
With humble hearts and mouths put in the dust,
Let’s say He’s merciful as well as just.
He will return and make up all our losses,
And smile again after our bitter crosses
Go pretty babe, go rest with sisters twain;
Among the blest in endless joys remain.
|Forest Hills Cemetery|
Our revels now are ended. These our actors,
As I foretold you, were all spirits, and
Are melted into air, into thin air:
And like the baseless fabric of this vision,
The cloud-capp'd tow'rs, the gorgeous palaces,
The solemn temples, the great globe itself,
Yea, all which it inherit, shall dissolve,
And, like this insubstantial pageant faded,
Leave not a rack behind. We are such stuff
As dreams are made on; and our little life
Is rounded with a sleep.
I bet Shakespeare visited a graveyard or two in his day!